Well, if someone didn’t say “I’m sorry” to you this week – let me be the first to apologize. This was a week filled with mea culpas for dastardly deeds.
First, there was John Mayer apologizing over again for using a racial slur during an interview with Playboy. Stay classy John. Then, of course, maybe it was the kerfuffle with movie director Kevin Smith and his “heavyweight” bout with Southwest Airlines. Southwest offered more than a bag of nuts and some free drink tickets. Or, maybe you got an apology from WordPress.com’s Founding Developer Matt Mullenweg. His “it sucks to be us” post at the end of the week came clean for the hour and a half downtime that took WordPress.com and more than 10 million blogs offline.
No? None of these folks apologized to you? Well, then of course you must’ve felt better when the grand-daddy of all apologies made its way up on stage on Friday. By most accounts, Tiger Woods’ apology was simultaneously heartfelt, robotic, angry andsincere.
Brand On Brand Action
One of the ironies of all of the above apologies, is that each of them are brands making public mistakes against other brands. Well, maybe not the John Mayer one – that was just stupid. There are definite lessons for us as marketers here. In today’s marketing landscape, it’s not only how we handle our organization’s mistakes – it’s how we handle a mistake committed against us. So, let’s look at three of these. Again, I’ll avoid the John Mayer one because… well just because it seems better left alone.
Social Media Celebrities Turning Into Deathstars
The @thatkevinsmith vs. @southwestair battle is very interesting, because it’s the first time that I can remember where someone with a truly huge following was “dissed” by a company that seems to truly “get” the social media thing. Historically, the blogosphere rages and the company being raged on either isn’t there – or is responding through traditional methods.
Southwest started apologizing quickly and often through Twitter and their Blog – even as the furor just began to rise over the hours and days from the time of the incident.
If we look at it from Southwest’s point of view – they just made the business case for Social Media monitoring and for being part of the conversation. Without taking sides here, things could have been so much worse if they had not been part of the conversation. If you’re trying to convince your management team that a social media strategy is worth doing – just point them to the coverage of this. And, review that coverage (and ultimate financial loss) as compared to when Taco Bell did almost nothing after a YouTube video of rats in a store went viral.
This is an important lesson to us as marketers, as this is a trend that’s only going to get bigger. Customer Service is now a contact sport – and how we deal with being on the business end of a popular “celebrity’s” Twitter gun will be a key piece of that strategy.
But just as importantly is what Kevin Smith will do now. It’s certainly no secret that he has a new movie opening soon, but by most accounts, he certainly seems to not be interested in using this as fodder. But what he does now will be just as important to his future brand now that he has received that attention. He might argue this point, but he’s now taking on a new set of responsibilities when it comes to service. I’m sure he wasn’t asking for the conversation around obesity – but he’s now in the middle of it. People take him seriously on this point now – and like it or not that comes with its own risks. The lesson here is to be aware. As the all important philosopher Kenny Rogers would say “know when to hold them, when to fold em’. When you should walk away – and when you should run.”
The Fast And The Furious Non-Apology Apology
Last week WordPress.com went down for 110 minutes and took 10 million blogs with it. If *anything* was going to cause the blogosphere to erupt in anger you’d think this would do it. But it didn’t happen. Even TechCrunch.com – who had literally just moved into WordPress.com from Rackspace wasn’t even snarky about it. So, why?
Interestingly, it wasn’t because of a traditional apology. In fact, you’ll note in Matt Mullenweg’s “apology” the words “we’re sorry” are never even mentioned. Wordpress.com just managed to get out ahead of the story by keeping everybody in the loop.
That’s an important lesson for us as marketers. Knowing when to apologize – and when to just make sure you’re in front of the issues is key. Just letting the problem go, and then apologizing for it later without any details isn’t going to work. Belkin discovered this the hard way last year when they were caught “paying” for positive reviews on a product. The CEO simply apologized – but then they were caught doing it again – and made the situation worse.
On the other hand, now knowing when to apologize sincerely might be worse. Just ask Goldman Sachs how their brand is doing when their CEO issues this as an apology: “while we regret that we participated in the market euphoria and failed to raise a responsible voice, we are proud of the way…” blah blah blah (it just gets worse from there).
Sometimes… It Is Just Awwwwkward. Planning Is Priceless
Say what you will about Tiger’s apology – it’s being thought out. You may agree or disagree with the strategy – but there’s a definite plan and it’s definitely being rehearsed. And that’s the key. When you really screw up – and you’ve got to move into crisis management, the key is to plan and execute deliberately. That doesn’t mean slow down (see above) but it does mean to act decisively and definitely think about your actions.
For Tiger (or anyone dealing with an extreme crisis of brand confidence) it’s how you plan your long-term strategy that will count most. You can’t be focused just on what will be said in the minutes and hours and days after – but rather the weeks, months and years that will follow.
Just look at celebrity brands that have come back from enormous crisis. Will Tiger follow the Bill Clinton model – of just coming back and executing brilliantly and hoping that the scandal doesn’t follow. Or, will he follow the Britney model of disappearing for two years and coming back “better than ever”. Or, maybe he can follow the Hugh Grant model – and work Oprah, and Leno and Letterman, and Regis and be forthcoming (not very likely).
Or, how about just apologizing (as he has) and waiting for it to go away. Everybody’s saying that it won’t work. But let’s look at another sports star – Kobe Bryant. Does anybody even remember that Kobe was accused of sexual assault seven years ago. Kobe apologized, bought his wife a $4 million diamond ring and played basketball with more determination than ever. Seems to have worked out okay for him. Don’t really see it working out for Tiger that way – but, you know… maybe it will.
In The End It’s Authenticity – Not “if’s or but’s”
Just remember that a real apology has no “if’s” in it. If you say “I’m sorry IF you were inconvenienced” – what you’re really saying is that the person had no right to be offended, so therefore you’re sorry that the person isn’t as big as he or she could be. An apology is simply “I’m sorry. We screwed up. You were wronged and we made a mistake”.
When we’re all moving as fast as we are – we are all going to make mistakes. In the end it’s all about being truly sorry that we caused a mistake – and then moving on. There’s a wonderful quote from the English writer G.K. Chesterson. He said “a stiff apology is a second insult… The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt.”
When we hear success stories of mistakes turning into huge marketing opportunities such as Jet Blue’s Passenger Bill Of Rights – we can see that in every mistake lies an opportunity to be a better brand, and a better marketer.
/spn vuxohn Mayer one because… well just because it seems better left alone.
Social Media Celebrities Turning Into Deathstars
The @thatkevinsmith vs. @southwestair battle is very interesting, because it’s the first time that I can remember where someone with a truly huge following was “dissed” by a company that seems to truly “get” the social media thing. Historically, the blogosphere rages and the company being raged on either isn’t there – or is responding through traditional methods.
Southwest started apologizing quickly and often through Twitter and their Blog – even as the furor just began to rise over the hours and days from the time of the incident.
If we look at it from Southwest’s point of view – they just made the business case for Social Media monitoring and for being part of the conversation. Without taking sides here, things could have been so much worse if they had not been part of the conversation. If you’re trying to convince your management team that a social media strategy is worth doing – just point them to the coverage of this. And, review that coverage (and ultimate financial loss) as compared to when Taco Bell did almost nothing after a YouTube video of rats in a store went viral.
This is an important lesson to us as marketers, as this is a trend that’s only going to get bigger. Customer Service is now a contact sport – and how we deal with being on the business end of a popular “celebrity’s” Twitter gun will be a key piece of that strategy.
But just as importantly is what Kevin Smith will do now. It’s certainly no secret that he has a new movie opening soon, but by most accounts, he certainly seems to not be interested in using this as fodder. But what he does now will be just as important to his future brand now that he has received that attention. He might argue this point, but he’s now taking on a new set of responsibilities when it comes to service. I’m sure he wasn’t asking for the conversation around obesity – but he’s now in the middle of it. People take him seriously on this point now – and like it or not that comes with its own risks. The lesson here is to be aware. As the all important philosopher Kenny Rogers would say “know when to hold them, when to fold em’. When you should walk away – and when you should run.”
The Fast And The Furious Non-Apology Apology
Last week WordPress.com went down for 110 minutes and took 10 million blogs with it. If *anything* was going to cause the blogosphere to erupt in anger you’d think this would do it. But it didn’t happen. Even TechCrunch.com – who had literally just moved into WordPress.com from Rackspace wasn’t even snarky about it. So, why?
Interestingly, it wasn’t because of a traditional apology. In fact, you’ll note in Matt Mullenweg’s “apology” the words “we’re sorry” are never even mentioned. Wordpress.com just managed to get out ahead of the story by keeping everybody in the loop.
That’s an important lesson for us as marketers. Knowing when to apologize – and when to just make sure you’re in front of the issues is key. Just letting the problem go, and then apologizing for it later without any details isn’t going to work. Belkin discovered this the hard way last year when they were caught “paying” for positive reviews on a product. The CEO simply apologized – but then they were caught doing it again – and made the situation worse.
On the other hand, now knowing when to apologize sincerely might be worse. Just ask Goldman Sachs how their brand is doing when their CEO issues this as an apology: “while we regret that we participated in the market euphoria and failed to raise a responsible voice, we are proud of the way…” blah blah blah (it just gets worse from there).
Sometimes… It Is Just Awwwwkward. Planning Is Priceless
Say what you will about Tiger’s apology – it’s being thought out. You may agree or disagree with the strategy – but there’s a definite plan and it’s definitely being rehearsed. And that’s the key. When you really screw up – and you’ve got to move into crisis management, the key is to plan and execute deliberately. That doesn’t mean slow down (see above) but it does mean to act decisively and definitely think about your actions.
For Tiger (or anyone dealing with an extreme crisis of brand confidence) it’s how you plan your long-term strategy that will count most. You can’t be focused just on what will be said in the minutes and hours and days after – but rather the weeks, months and years that will follow.
Just look at celebrity brands that have come back from enormous crisis. Will Tiger follow the Bill Clinton model – of just coming back and executing brilliantly and hoping that the scandal doesn’t follow. Or, will he follow the Britney model of disappearing for two years and coming back “better than ever”. Or, maybe he can follow the Hugh Grant model – and work Oprah, and Leno and Letterman, and Regis and be forthcoming (not very likely).
Or, how about just apologizing (as he has) and waiting for it to go away. Everybody’s saying that it won’t work. But let’s look at another sports star – Kobe Bryant. Does anybody even remember that Kobe was accused of sexual assault seven years ago. Kobe apologized, bought his wife a $4 million diamond ring and played basketball with more determination than ever. Seems to have worked out okay for him. Don’t really see it working out for Tiger that way – but, you know… maybe it will.
In The End It’s Authenticity – Not “if’s or but’s”
Just remember that a real apology has no “if’s” in it. If you say “I’m sorry IF you were inconvenienced” – what you’re really saying is that the person had no right to be offended, so therefore you’re sorry that the person isn’t as big as he or she could be. An apology is simply “I’m sorry. We screwed up. You were wronged and we made a mistake”.
When we’re all moving as fast as we are – we are all going to make mistakes. In the end it’s all about being truly sorry that we caused a mistake – and then moving on. There’s a wonderful quote from the English writer G.K. Chesterson. He said “a stiff apology is a second insult… The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt.”
When we hear success stories of mistakes turning into huge marketing opportunities such as Jet Blue’s Passenger Bill Of Rights – we can see that in every mistake lies an opportunity to be a better brand, and a better marketer.